Quest for answers

I am reading a book. (WOW!) Well, I read books all the time...but this is a sit down, concentrate, re-read & check the footnotes kind of book. I'll tell you what it is another time...for now I'm on a quest for some input:

What is your definition of femininity?

Another way to phrase the question: What does the word feminine bring to mind?

So I realize hitting that comment button seemingly strikes fear into peoples' hearts, but no worries, you can even be anonymous if you like! Your input will be much appreciated...I'll update you later.